About Me

Hi, I’m Xarra, I’m a 30-something cis woman agender bisexual polyamorous gaming LARPing writing photographing cat-loving human who lives in the north east of England (the wet bit). See my blog post about labels!

As of December 2016 I live with my husband (who I will reference as M), my two children (B and G) and approximately four cats (Onyxia, Nefarian, Sindragosa and Ebyssian – spot the naming theme) depending on who’s gone a-wandering this time. I also have had a long term male partner (S) although our relationship is currently on a freeze, plus I still have a male best friend who I have more than a little crush on (L).

I have a good job that I enjoy and doesn’t care that I’m poly, although I still use she/her pronouns. I’m a techy data type person who can sit engrossed in queries and search for hours if I’m left to my own devices. I also have a vast range of hobbies from reading and writing fantasy, to computer games, and LARP (Live Action Roleplay).